Diagram of Human Experience: A path out of pain through wonder

 

1.  We exist in a state of “ease and flow”

2.  We experience “something to learn” (often times painful and confusing)

3.  We have a choice:

a.  We may chose to be curious and move toward wonder, or….

b. We may choose defense…..

4.  And, we have a choice:

a.  We may chose to be curious and move toward wonder, or….

b. We may go deeper into defense and become more fearful, taking on the role of:

                                                                                                                                   i.      Victim

                                                                                                                               ii.      Perpetrator

                                                                                                                           iii.      Rescuer

5.  And again, we have a choice:

a.  We may chose to be curious and move toward wonder, or….

b. We may stay in the domain known as “The GRIP” for a long time….

6.  And, we still have a choice……..

 

 

 



Of course, all this could be wrong……..